Over a year ago I had a debate with an old friend around a campfire about maximizing your potential. Since then, I haven’t been able to get his words out of my head.
“By the time we are in our 40s our path is set your potential is channeled, you are just not going to accomplish anything significant you haven’t already started.”
For some reason, that comment from a friendly conversation infuriated me, and I kept trying to decide why.
A Picture of You With Your Potential Intact
“I wish I could show you a picture of yourself with your potential intact.”~John Maxwell, Beyond Talent
He and I both have great families, interesting lives, important work.
Both paths, even if they were truly “set” are good. And for some reason, I have to know there is more.
There are still many areas where “great” is an option, and I can’t imagine not opening my heart to new possibilities.
We all know people with incredible talent at all stages of life, who for one reason or another are not maximizing their potential.
Many of these folks are in our families, neighborhoods, churches, and workplaces. Sometimes they remain good (rather than great) because they are not investing the time and energy in the arena in which they could become great. There is also the crowd that seems to be in the right field, but for lots of “reasons,” don’t take it to the level they could.
The athlete who doesn’t properly train, the musician who doesn’t practice, the leader that does not hone her skills. There are usually lots of “reasons” for the settling, often beginning with the words, “not enough” money, time, energy, network, support.
I worry what they really lack is the belief in their ability to pull it off.
In his book, Beyond Talent: Become Someone Who Achieves Extraordinary Results, John Maxwell identifies 13 choices we make that can amplify our talent. A good read, and all focus areas to consider. He begins with a chapter called “Belief Lifts Your Talent.”
“Its one thing to believe that you possess remarkable potential. It’s another thing to have enough faith in yourself that you think you can fulfill it. When it comes to believing in themselves, some people are agnostic.”
Maxwell offers several “Talent and Belief” application exercises, designed to get people thinking about their opportunities for greatness.
As many writers do, he starts with a strength inventory (identifying top skills and talents) and moves on to thinking about what activities arouse your passion. What I like about his approach is that he then asks the reader to consider what opportunities might be presenting themselves, and to create a picture to bring it all together.
“Take some time to consider what kind of picture emerges based on these talents, interests and opportunities. How might they come together for someone other than you, someone with fewer obstacles or limitations– someone who is in the right place at the right time? Dream big– no idea is outrageous. Brainstorm what someone in that situation might be able to do, and what he or she could become.”
Ever since that conversation with my friend, I believe I am dreaming a bit bigger and looking for opportunities in more arenas.
What is your picture of greatness?
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