Smart, Strategic, and Still Easy to Work With? Yes, You Can.
You know that person everyone wants on their team? The one people describe with a big smile and a big thumbs up because, “they’re just so easy to work with”?
Yeah, be that person.
Whether you’re navigating matrixed teams, global time zones, or just trying to make your next meeting suck less—being easy to work with isn’t about being a pushover. It’s about presence, clarity, and follow-through. Here’s how to get there:
Practical Ways to Be a Great Team Player (Asking for a Friend Video Advice, from Doha, Qatar)
1. Start With Just a Couple of Go-To Powerful Phrases
If you’re only going to keep a few in your back pocket, start with these:
“Tell me more.”
It’s simple, but powerful. It shows you’re listening, not just waiting for your turn to talk.
“I’ve got this.”
Clear. Steady. No drama. These three words say, “You can count on me,” without making a big deal.
Phrases like these build trust fast. They signal that you’re here to collaborate, not compete.
2. Own Your Strengths. Share Your Pearls.
You’ve got skills. Strategic thinking. Creative problem-solving. People magic. Operational excellence. Whatever your magic is—bring it. Own it. And then? Please share it.
Easy-to-work-with people know what they bring to the table—and they make room for others to shine too.
3. Speak Up—and Listen
Say what you think. Offer your ideas. Ask the tricky question.
And then listen.
Not to reload.
Not to win.
To understand.
People want to work with folks who make them feel seen and heard, not steamrolled or sidelined.
4. Be Reliable (Yes, Every Time)
You can be brilliant, hilarious, and full of great ideas. But if you flake? That’s what people remember.
Being easy to work with means doing what you say you’ll do—especially when no one’s watching.
5. Understand the Bigger Picture
Don’t just finish your tasks.
Zoom out. Ask: How does this help the team? The customer? The mission?
The easiest people to work with are the ones who understand. They don’t just do their part—they make the whole thing run smoother.
6. Find the Fun
This doesn’t mean you show up with juggling pins and a kazoo. (Unless that’s your thing).
It just means you’re the kind of person who notices what’s working. You smile, lighten the moment, and remind people it’s okay to breathe.
You make it better to be in the room, even the virtual one.
So Here’s Your Challenge This Week
- Say, “Tell me more.”
- Say “I’ve got this.”
- Show up. Follow through.
- Share generously.
- Laugh when you can.
- Deliver what you promise.
That’s how you get the thumbs up—without ever asking for it.
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