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New Job, Fast Lane: How Not to Get Run Over in Your New Role

by | Apr 18, 2025 | Asking For a Friend Featured

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Navigating Workplace Culture as a New Hire

You’re excited about your new job. You want to make an impact.

And yet—it’s coming at you from all directions: Slack messages dinging like a fire alarm, meetings that could be emails, emails that could be lawsuits, and coworkers speaking in acronyms that sound like secret passwords.

So how do you hit the ground running without face-planting in your new job?  Here are a few probe ways to get off to a fast and productive start.

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1. Know Which Scooter Is Yours Before You Hit the Gas

When you first step into a new job, it’s like pulling up to a crowded curb in Ho Chi Minh City. Scooters everywhere. Horns blaring. People zipping off in every direction.

If you just grab the nearest one and take off—sure, you’re moving. But where? Fast doesn’t always mean smart.

Before you get swept into the motion, pause and ask:

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“What does success actually look like in this new job—90 days from now, what would make you say I crushed it?”

This is your GPS moment. You don’t want to be the enthusiastic new hire doing donuts in the company parking lot because you missed the destination.

2. Tune Out the Frenetic Noise

Everything feels urgent. Not everything is.

Ask yourself:

  • What will move the mission forward?

  • What’s performative chaos?

  • Who benefits if I react… and who benefits if I don’t?

Get curious. Listen. But don’t volunteer to catch every spinning plate in your new job.

3. Find a Streetwise Guide

Your workplace has a map. And someone knows it by heart.

It may not be your formal mentor. It’s often that plugged-in human who quietly gets things done while others are still forwarding the agenda.

Find them. Be curious. Ask for stories, not just advice. Ask:

“What do you wish you knew in your first month here?”

That one always sparks gold.

4. Learn the Rush Hours

Every office has them—even virtual ones. Want to connect with someone important? Don’t ping them when they’re knee-deep in fire drills.

Ask your teammates:

“When’s a good time to grab a few focused minutes with you?”

Strategic timing = better attention + less frustration. Think of it as workplace Waze for you new job.

5. Build Credibility Before You Need It

Take time to connect. Show genuine curiosity about your team’s priorities. Offer help before you need help.

As we say in our book, Powerful Phrases for Dealing with Workplace Conflict. 

“Connection makes conflict easier, and collaboration faster.”

Even a 15-minute coffee chat today can save hours of spinning your wheels tomorrow.

6. Keep a “Wins and WTFs” Journal

Track your early wins, moments you felt lost, and what you learned. It’ll help you make sense of the blur and prep you for meaningful convos with your boss.

Ask yourself weekly:

  • What energized me?

  • What drained me?

  • What would I do differently?

This helps you own your story, not just survive it.

Final Word from the Saigon Sidewalk

As you launch your new role, think less Formula 1, more Google Maps: orient first, then accelerate. And give yourself grace. It’s not about knowing everything—it’s about learning what matters most, fastest.

You’ve got this. And if you don’t, well… ask for a friend 😉

See Also: How can I be authentic at work and still fit in.

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Karin Hurt helps human-centered leaders find clarity in uncertainty, drive innovation, and achieve breakthrough results.  She’s the founder and CEO of Let’s Grow Leaders, an international leadership development and training firm known for practical tools and leadership development programs that stick. She’s the award-winning author of four books including Courageous Cultures: How to Build Teams of Micro-Innovators, Problem Solvers, and Customer Advocates and Powerful Phrases for Dealing with Workplace Conflict, and a hosts the popular Asking For a Friend Vlog on LinkedIn. A former Verizon Wireless executive, Karin was named to Inc. Magazine’s list of great leadership speakers. Karin and her husband and business partner, David Dye, are committed to their philanthropic initiative, Winning Wells – building clean water wells for the people of Cambodia.

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