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Inheriting a Quiet Team? Here’s How to Build a Culture of Voice

You’re a human-centered leader who wants people to speak up and contribute their ideas. AND, you’ve inherited a quiet team, what to do next?

Dear Asking for a Friend,
“I inherited a team that’s technically strong but emotionally silent. They don’t bring concerns, ideas, or challenges forward. I’ve created space. I’ve told them I want their input. Still, nothing. I’m starting to wonder—what if this has nothing to do with me, but it’s now my responsibility anyway? Asking for a friend, of course.”

The Legacy of Silence Runs Deep

You’re not imagining it. Teams can inherit more than processes—they inherit psychological patterns. In Courageous Cultures, we talk about how employees who’ve worked under dismissive, punitive, or inconsistent leaders carry “scar tissue” from past experiences. They’ve learned to survive by staying quiet​.

You can be the most empowering leader in the world, but if the team has been trained that speaking up equals risk, they won’t believe you—yet.

 5 Practical Ways to Break the Silence and Build Voice

1. Say What Everyone’s Thinking—Out Loud

Silence loves to hang out in the shadows. If you want to change the dynamic, you’ve got to bring it into the light.

Try something like:

“I know this team’s been through some seasons where speaking up didn’t always feel safe—or even worth the effort. That’s not lost on me. And I want to change that. But I can’t do it alone.”

When you put the fish on the table with empathy, you’re showing up to write a better next chapter.

2. Start with What Used to Be Off-Limits

Ask questions designed to reverse learned helplessness:

• “What’s something we’ve just accepted as normal that doesn’t actually work?”

• “What part of our process frustrates you but feels ‘untouchable’?”

You’re not just inviting ideas—you’re inviting people to rewire their assumptions about what’s allowed.

3. Create a Low-Risk Micro-Idea System

Big ideas feel dangerous. Small ideas feel safe. Build confidence through a weekly ritual like “Tiny Fix Fridays” where anyone can drop one small suggestion to improve how you work.

Rules:

• No judgment.

• Every idea gets acknowledged.

• Close the loop publicly—win or not.

This activates micro-innovation—the foundation of a Courageous Culture​.

4. Respond with Regard—Visibly

Even more important than asking is what you do next. When someone takes a risk, validate it. Respond with gratitude and curiosity, even if you disagree.

Try:

“That’s a fresh take. I might not be able to act on it this round, but I’d love to understand the ‘why’ behind it more.”

Consistency here matters more than brilliance. It’s not one perfect reaction—it’s the pattern that rebuilds trust.

5. Reset the Story Publicly

People believe what they see repeated. So, repeat stories of brave contribution:

“Last week, Thao suggested a shortcut that shaved 90 minutes off our workflow. That small act made a big difference.”

Make speaking up part of the team’s identity—not an exception, but the expectation.

“This is a reset. Not just of performance, but of how we show up for each other. I’m not just looking for ideas—I’m building a team where voice is normal, expected, and protected. If you’ve had reasons to stay quiet before, I respect that. But starting today, let’s try something different. Small steps are enough.”

Silence Isn’t Laziness—It’s Learned. And It’s Reversible.

When you inherit a quiet team, you’re also inheriting their history. But the future is yours to co-create. One psychological nudge at a time.

Your Mini Challenge for This Week:

Run a “Past/Present/Future” team moment:

• Past: “What’s something you learned not to say in past roles?”

• Present: “What’s one thing we could start talking about more openly?”

• Future: “If we got really good at raising ideas early—what might change?”

Be ready to model the vulnerability first.

Another Idea? Why not read (and discuss) our book, Courageous Cultures, as a team.  We’ve made it easy to read it together with a variety of companion tools and discussion guides.

Check out: Leadership Book Club: How to Read Courageous Cultures With Your Team.