Episode 340: What if the real thing killing productivity on your team isn’t laziness, workload, or attitude—but unspoken expectations no one ever clarified?
You know the frustration. A meeting goes sideways. A teammate feels disrespected. You’re stuck in a circular debate about something that “should be obvious.” Meanwhile, resentment builds and momentum stalls. Whether it’s camera-on norms, unclear directives from your boss, or two people interpreting the same instruction differently, the lack of clarity quietly drains morale and performance. If you’ve ever felt like you missed the company-issued “secret decoder ring,” this episode shows you how to decode expectations, reduce conflict, and lead with confidence instead of walking on eggshells.
In this episode, you’ll learn how to:
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Spot when unclear norms—not bad intentions—are killing productivity and causing unnecessary conflict
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Use practical, powerful phrases to turn tension into alignment and shared agreement
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Lead clarity conversations with confidence so you build influence, trust, and stronger team performance
Press play now and walk away with specific words you can use this week to eliminate confusion and reclaim the productivity your team deserves.
How Hidden Norms and UnClear Expectations Impact Your Team
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David introduces the idea that many workplace conflicts stem from unspoken expectations—the “secret decoder ring” no one hands you during onboarding—and how those hidden norms may be quietly killing productivity.
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The episode reframes unclear expectations as one of the most common sources of workplace tension, showing how misaligned assumptions—not bad intent—often derail collaboration.
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A relatable example of virtual meeting camera norms highlights how differing perspectives, when never discussed, create resentment and misunderstanding that ends up killing productivity.
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You’re reminded that in many situations, there is no objectively “right” answer—only unspoken preferences—so conflict becomes optional if someone is willing to lead the clarity conversation.
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The host outlines the four dimensions of healthy collaboration—connection, clarity, curiosity, and commitment—and explains how breakdowns in these areas contribute to tension and stalled performance.
Practical Phrases to Stop What’s Killing Productivity
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You learn the first powerful phrase: “It seems to me we see this differently,” a simple way to surface competing assumptions and interrupt conflict before it escalates.
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The conversation moves to naming consequences and positive intent—“Here’s the challenge we face” and “I know that’s not what we want”—to prevent unclear norms from continuing to quietly kill productivity.
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“Let’s decide how to decide” introduces a meta-decision strategy that helps teams move forward efficiently, whether through consensus or majority vote.
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A recap of the key phrases reinforces how curiosity-driven questions like “How does this look from your perspective?” build shared understanding and stronger agreements.
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You’re given a practical script for resolving conflicting interpretations with a colleague—inviting them to seek clarity together—so you can stop assumptions from killing productivity and strengthen trust at the same time.
Check out these additional resources on how to Be Clear!
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