Being unmessable with is not about having perfect circumstances but rather, who you are in the face of the real circumstances life throws at you. Being able to create possibility and make a difference under any circumstance, with anyone at any time, and never lose who you are is what Josselyne Herman-Saccio calls being UNMESSABLEWITH.
How to be Unmessable With
Being unmessable with is not about being tough and it’s not about being impervious to people or getting rid of things that mess with you. It’s about being able to stay in that space of creation versus reaction.
Identify what are the red flags that tell them that they’re being messable with. Usually, this is a physical trigger.
Work to dismantle what messes with you so you can stay in or get to that space of creation quicker. Because ultimately all you do have is today or now.
What are some examples of something physical that interrupts those brain patterns to shift gears?
How do we be unmessable with in the moments that would mess with anyone?
Get clear about what’s actually happening and create awareness around the context you connect to based on past experience.
People ask, how do you not take it personally? Remember, most people don’t wake up in the morning trying to think about how to tick someone off.